Healing Black Love is a movement initiated by award-winning author and speaker, Laneen A. Haniah, also known as SouLah the Legend and Dr. Intimacy. After years of painful and disappointing ends to relationships and two divorces, Laneen wanted answers about how to win in love. In 2018, God gave her those answers in a book, which she entitled, "How to Love a Black Man: RESPECT HIM." This book became a phenomenon, holding both women and men accountable for restoring respect and honor to Black men. It is the first in a series of books addressing the fundamental needs of Black Love. Please get your copy of "How to Love a Black Man" and join our Facebook Group to engage with the community. We are so glad you're here. Let's experience the relationship satisfaction and reciprocal love we all deserve!
This book is a powerful read for any woman who wants a better outcome in her love-life. It is also a resource for men who feel under-appreciated; and have difficulty communicating to the women in their lives the importance of feeling respected. A favorite for book clubs; used ub workshops; recommended for pre-marital and relationship counselling; and even endorsed by schools and churches: How to Love a Black Man is back and better than ever, with this 2025 update!
Learn 100 Key Insights that teach women how to love men in a language they understand. Explore the subconscious oppression Black men secretly struggle with, and how it affects their functionality in relationships. The author teaches women how to recognize these struggles and how to respond in a way that secures a man’s heart, leading to him deeply loving and valuing her.
Besides all the great things appreciated about the original version of How to Love a Black Man, the 2025 Edition includes—updates, end-of-chapter questions, journal prompts, fresh insights, and community engagement. Teaching women how to get the LOVE they want! Teaching men how to get the RESPECT they need!
What's Inside?
How to Love a Black Man: RESPECT HIM, is a one-of-a-kind book. It has been dubbed, "the Bible on loving Black men!" One of the things that makes this book so special is the unique layout. Let's take a look!
SouLah suffered unrelenting emotional pain throughout her life, leading to multiple suicide attempts. Now, as a mother of seven who is approaching 50 years of age, SouLah refuses to let anything stop her! She passionately pursues her purpose and lives every day to redeem the years lost to sickness, depression, people-pleasing, and unhealed trauma.
SouLah the Legend is building an Inspired Legacy through her creative content, powerful books, captivating speeches, and distinctive music productions. Her path has cultivated a hunger to encourage others to live a meaningful and liberated life. She leads by example, and she reminds people every day that — Only You Can Make Your Life Matter!
SouLah the Legend is building an Inspired Legacy through her creative content, powerful books, captivating speeches, and distinctive music productions. Her path has cultivated a hunger to encourage others to live a meaningful and liberated life. She leads by example, and she reminds people every day that — Only You Can Make Your Life Matter!
How to Love a Black Man: RESPECT HIM - 2025 Edition!
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100 Key Insights that teach women how to interact in a way that secures a man’s heart, leading to him deeply loving and valuing her. The objective of this book is to help both men and women achieve reciprocated love and respect and experience “relationship satisfaction.”
In this personal memior and self-help book, learn how “superficial happiness” leads to hidden depression. The author xplores untreated mental health issues, childhood trauma, and the connection between toxic relationships and depression—showing you how to dig up the unseen wounds that cause emotional dysfunction. A MUST READ!
The life-saving strategies Laneen Haniah used to save her 18-year-old son from suicide. Practical step-by-step guides, check lists, and iilustrations. Debunk myths about suicidal depression and learn how to intervene in the life of someone you love!
The author reflects on the highs and lows of manic and depressive episodes, haunting past traumas, battling self-hatred, and the toxic relationships she kept turning to for escape. A book of epic poetry and insights about Suicidal Love.
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SouLah the Legend is a liberation artist, fluent in various artistic styles and genres. She is the sound of authenticity—pure color and energy, with soulful vibes that echo eternity. Check out her music on all platforms, or click on each image below to listen on SouLah's YouTube channel.
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